Thursday, July 29, 2010
Could you be a "not wannabe"?
Recently we've heard from a lot of singles who say they want to meet someone special and have that God-planted desire in their hearts for a mate satisfied, but are sending off mixed signals. Could you be one of these?
... women who don't wear make-up, or strive for stylish hair and clothes; a man whose wardrobe is from 10 to 20 years ago?
... someone who shows up late for a date and not dressed to impress?
... someone who pays for online dating and even mentoring but won't engage in the process?
... someone who has an impossible "must have" checklist?
... someone who is too busy to make time for dating?
... someone who send out "not interested" or "do not approach" signals?
The list goes on and on. Whew, did I sign up for this? Quite frankly, when Kim and I began Cache' Connections, little did we know that God had actually called us to help people on a deeper, personal and emotional level rather than just providing a connection point. The fact is we live in a fallen world and people have suffered hurts that hinder them from healthy relationships. As I said the other day, the more I learn about people, the less I understand them. But as someone replied, all we have to do is love them as Jesus loved them.
There's no easy solution, and for many it's going to take some deep soul-searching and perhaps some professional counseling. But Cache' Connections is here to begin to open your mind to some things that might be holding you back from successful relationships. In fact, that has already happened for some of our Cache' couples. Stick with us as we provide expert advice through several different avenues, including this blog. As we say, "we're happy to help." We're also privileged to pray for you, too, so don't hesitate to share your prayer requests with us.
'It is not good for the man to be alone' Genesis 2:18.
Have a great day - it's a gift from God!