Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Should I look for another man?

Today we are playing "Dear Abby." We received this inquiry from a young woman recently:

Hello, I'm wondering, is it right of me, to look for another man, when my heart is dead-set on my ex boyfriend (who says he does not want anyone but me, but is not "sure" right now if he even wants that). I feel like I cannot love anyone else? Or at least, my heart isn't there?

Our answer:
Thanks for the question. You should wait for your heart to heal and continue seeking God's will regarding your ex-boyfriend. It would be unfair to another suitor if you still have feelings for your ex. There's a time for everything: Eccl. 3:1:
1 There is a time for everything,
and a season for every activity under the heavens:

2 a time to be born and a time to die,
a time to plant and a time to uproot,
3 a time to kill and a time to heal,
a time to tear down and a time to build,
4 a time to weep and a time to laugh,
a time to mourn and a time to dance,
5 a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,
6 a time to search and a time to give up,
a time to keep and a time to throw away,
7 a time to tear and a time to mend,
a time to be silent and a time to speak,
8 a time to love and a time to hate,
a time for war and a time for peace.

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~ Linda
Cache' Connections

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