Nuggets from "If You Want to Walk on Water, You've Got to Get Out of the Boat"

It's no secret that Kim and I, the founders of Cache' Connections, feel like establishing this business/ministry has been a boat-exiting expedition. We know this is God's calling on our lives, as he has provided, confirmed and untangled in miraculous ways. Was it easy? No. Was it a scary risk? Yes - and it sometimes still is. But we keep reminding ourselves that God's word is true and faithful. We know that he tends to move alongside of our faith in action.

Here are a few quotes from John Ortberg's book, based on the apostle Peter's unforgettable water walk with Jesus.

Ortberg writes: There is a consistent pattern in scripture of what happens in a life that God wants to use and improve:

- There is always a call ...
- There is always fear ...
- There is always reassurance ...
- There is always a decision ...
- There is always a changed life

This is the part that is interesting. Those who say yes to the call don't always "walk the water perfectly" but they learn and grow through the process of trying and failing. "And they become part of his actions to redeem the world." Those who say no also are changed: they become a little harder, more resistant to say yes the next time He calls. Ooh, ouch! Do you know anyone like that?

In bringing this around to matters of the heart (like we tend to do here at CC), there is always going to be risk involved in seeking a mate. Risk isn't fun - at least not for many of us. But without taking a risk, you simply don't have a chance to win the prize. It can be scary, exhilarating, and a million other things. But without taking that first step, then the second, and so on ... you may become more resistant to try the next time an opportunity arises.

So, maybe consider taking that first step of attending a singles event or joining the website. Then ... there are necessary second and third steps. Talk to someone. Step out of your shell and say hello - maybe to several people. Already a member? Have you posted a photo? Your chances of receiving communication will greatly improve with some smiling photos. Make someone's day - send them a word of encouragement.

One of my favorite sayings is, "The harder I work, the luckier I get." This goes back to the reaping/sowing philosophy found in scripture (Gal 6:7) and I believe it pertains to many aspects of our lives, including forming relationships. I once heard you have to meet 100 people to make one good friend. Wouldn't it be the same case (if not more) to meet your soulmate?