Keep Speaking!

I think sometimes we forget how powerful our words and thoughts are. Our faith is released in how we think and speak. Take for instance the woman who suffered with the issue of blood for 12 years (Mark 5:25-28). No doctor was able to help her, although she had spent all of her money trying to treat her illness. Surely she had thoughts of hopelessness! But when she heard about Jesus, she went out of her way to touch the hem of His garment. Different version state that she "kept saying" or "she thought"... "If I just touch his clothes, I will be healed." Of course, Jesus told her that it was her faith that healed her. So I'm just wondering, have your examined your thoughts lately? Are you proclaiming God's favor over your circumstances? Kim and I continually thank God for what he is doing in and through Cache' Connections, as we give the business to Him every day. Although we are far removed from the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, but we are confident that our God is able to do above and beyond all that we can imagine or hope for. I encourage you today to train your mind to think positively about that special mate that you long for. Thank God out loud for what He is going to do, as well as for the waiting period. For we know, all things work for the good for those who love and serve the Lord.

Take Your Stand and ACT!

Many singles express a feeling of hopelessness in their situation. They describe to us how they feel incapable of changing their circumstances... saying maybe God wants them to do nothing but just wait on Him. So, they wait... doing the same things, going the same places. Is this what God calls us to do? Will He supernaturally bring that person we are waiting for to our doorstep?... not to say God isn't capable of doing that, but just imagine God is saying something else to us... Take for instance the story of King Jehoshaphat in the Old Testament when his community was about to be attacked by a several massive armies of which he had no resources or power to overcome. Jehoshaphat was terrified by this news and cried out to the Lord for help. The Lord answered through one of his people and instructed them to not be afraid and "take your positions: then stand still and watch the Lord's victory." So, back to my question: Is this an example of God telling us to do nothing... Well, let's take a deeper look. Did the people stay in bed the next day, cover their heads with their blankets and wait for God to deliver them? Remember, he said to "take your position." God was calling them to prepare themselves - position themselves for God to work. King Jehoshaphat and his people gathered together and marched as an army singing praises to God. As God had promised, they were completely unharmed by the attacking forces who turned on each other and these threatening armies were ultimately destroyed. The holy spirit may be directing us to act when he is bringing thoughts to our minds repeatedly. If the opportunity lines up with God's word, then I recommend you jump in and give it a chance. It gives us confidence to take action and take some control over our situation!

Stepping out in Faith

So I started a book titled "Lessons I learned in the Dark" last night by Jennifer Rothschild. I must admit I wasn't too excited about starting it, but needed a break from the computer and TV. It's the story of how Jennifer lost her sight in high school and how that has affected her faith and life. I'm in her grip already at page 28 as she explains the terror of leaving the safety of home and going off to college completely alone and in the dark. Although she was went through mobility training, she had such fears as: who's gonna check my makeup for me? (I can identify!) Who's gonna tell me what food is on my plate? How will I really know if there are no car coming when I'm crossing the street? My question would have been: how will I know where to go and where the doors and sidewalks are ... I can't imagine. Jennifer heard her heavenly Father tell her: "You must take a step. I've prepared you to go, and deep down you want to walk by faith." She goes on to say, "When we do step out, like the heroes of the faith in Hebrews 11, we'll find the treasures that God has reserved for those who lean completely on Him." Within two weeks, Jennifer stumbled upon the wonderful man who became her husband. So, I'm just wondering - what steps of faith might you need to be making? It is evident from the Old Testament to the New Testament that God will work within our faith and action. If you are already a member of Cache' Connections, you have taken that first step and we applaud that. What else might God be waiting for you to do? Are you interacting with your connections? Are you open to the type of mate that God might have for you, or is your check list too long and stringent? We have seen and heard over and over again success stories that begin something like this: "I would have NEVER ..." We urge you to be open and willing to take the next steps and prayerfully ask the Lord to help keep your heart and mind open for what He wants to do to fulfill your longing for a soul mate. ~ Linda

How was your worship this weekend?

At our church, Northwoods Community Church, we had a visiting worship pastor candidate lead the worship. It was awesome! He seemed to put together a package (sorry, kinda worldly sounding) including videos, specials and worship songs for all of us to enjoy. It was evident that he had many of us pumped up for God. I find it interesting that different individuals enjoy different styles of worship. Last week I visited a friend's church to support their child's dedication to God. The worship was much more traditional and included a lot of organ music. I am thankful that God enjoys all styles of worship! It is true that worship is more than music, though we seem to put the emphasis on that. Worship is partly your attitude toward God and others throughout your day. You worship God when you give your all at work or school. When you work to be the best "you" you can be, that is worship. Is that awesome or what? Romans 12:1 "Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God - this is your spiritual act of worship. Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind..." In other words, it's not about you, it's about our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen!

3 Months and Counting...

Three months after launch and all is well! Wow, we've had our doubts at times and some scary moments, but we're so excited to see our many hours of hard work paying off. After running a test market in Rockford, Illinois, we now have a better view of what marketing campaigns work and which ones don't. For instance, Christian radio is definitely more productive than secular, and on-air interviews on respected Christian radio helps build our credibility. We have several new campaigns in the works such as our first big event, area-wide small group studies, roundtable meetings with church leaders and new radio markets across the nation. Hold on to your hats...Cache' Connections is coming to town! On another note, we are excited about our Single Spotlight Contest on Shine radio featuring Henry as our bachelor of the month. He is an amazing example of a cool guy and true believer that is living out his commitment to dating another Christian. Take a look at http://www.cacheconnections.com/singlespotlight/henry.

We give all the glory to our Heavenly Father - praises to Him who has given us this destiny and business!

It was so confirming to hear the words of a client at a recent Mark Harris concert we were at in Peoria, IL. She knew we would be there and stopped by to say hi, but was very intent about something she wished to express. Her words went something like this...."I just want to thank you guys for what you are doing. I have felt somewhat forgotten and alone, but it has given me such hope to know that you guys care and are trying to help bring Christian singles together." Her words really went to the heart of the matter of why this business started. Christian singles maybe aren't valued in today's society, but God holds them in high esteem for their commitment to following his word. We want Christian singles to know we understand their struggles to find a Christian mate and we want them to be confident and proud of this commitment. God tells us in his word that he will bless us abundantly for believing in his word and obeying his word. Therefore, hold your heads high, Christian singles, and know that God cares and he's working things out for your good!

August Sale - 50% off!

Now is a great time to "get out of the boat" and give Cache' Connections a try. For a limited time, sign up for 6 months and get 50% off of your subscription - that's a $49.97 value!

Let's face it, forming relationships takes time. This will give you an opportunity to build your profile and start communicating with your connections.

As Summer comes to an end, this a great time to begin thinking about developing new relationships. Your special someone could be just a click away!

PROMO CODE: AUG0806. This offer expires on August 31, 2008.

Blessings,
Kim and Linda
Cache' Connections

Success Stories

So everyone is always wants to know if we have any success stories. Although we are too young to be able to boast weddings and babies, we proudly boast that we are aware of three couples who are feeling a strong connection toward one another to the point of deactivating their accounts. What a confirmation that what we have built is working! We'll be posting official success-so-far stories on the site, but two couples met through the matching and messaging system, and one actually met in the chat room! So take heart, all you who hope in the Lord, Cache' Connections' mission statement is being fulfilled! Our mission statement:

1. Providing a connection point for Christian singles for community and matchmaking services

2. Supporting and promoting healthy dating relationships based on biblical standards

If there are any other unreported success stories out there, remember, we don't want your name, we want your information!

~Linda

Cache' Makes the News Again!

The Christian Compass

July 24, 2008
Cache Connections has Plenty of Cache' for Christian Singles

Posted on July 24th, 2008 by Sharon

by Linda Emmons

Since our society has long abandoned formal, “proper” introductions of unmarried people to one another, and most frown on arranged marriages, what is a Christian single person to do? Being a Christian single has it’s benefits, and some people are called to that lifestyle. But if you or someone you know is part of the majority of Believers, those who know God has a soul-mate “out there” for them somewhere, and hate the sterile, ineffective approaches of typical dating services, Cache Connections may be for you.

Cache' Connections is the outgrowth of the matchmaking abilities of friends and business partners Kim Whitaker and Linda Martin. Believing that a faith-based, personal approach to finding a mate was lacking, the two women started a matchmaking service. Soon it became apparent that they needed a larger pool of singles and decided to take Cache' Connections online in February, 2007.

Kim and Linda said “We built the service exclusively for Christians… It has always been crucial that we are lifting up in prayer our clients and all areas of the business and committing every aspect to be done in a God-pleasing manner. We believe God hard-wires in everyone a destiny to be completed here on earth, so we take this role very seriously.”

A cache is a hidden treasure, and some of the unique characteristics of Cache' Connections are the personalized, interactive services intended to bring out the treasure in the people they serve. Cache' tries to help members understand themselves and develop healthy relationships. Kim and Linda host online chats to stay in touch with members and provide support from Drs. Tom and Beverly Rodgers, relationship therapists, international speakers and authors of multiple books on Christian relationships.

Cache' adds interest by hosting live chats and a “dating game” segment where a single is spotlighted and they narrow choices down to finalists.

To get started, prospective members must agree to a statement of faith, provide a credit card, and answer a questionnaire. The members are given a series of choices to describe their faith and how it plays out in their daily lives. The questions are designed to be a teaching tool, guiding members to think about who they are and what they are looking for in a mate. The next task to register is photo submission. Since other sites tempt members to use outdated photos, Cache' members are required to submit photos reflecting a more present reality.

Cache' Connections is unabashedly Christian, and scriptural context is provided on their site for all the activities. Check them out further at http://www.cacheconnections.com/

Quick Facts:

Founders: Kim Whitaker and Linda Martin

Current members are from 20-80 years old; Average member age range is 35-48 years old

Geographical area covered is worldwide, although being a new service, many are clustered in Cache’s home base of Illinois.

Cache' goes to Ignite-Chicago!

Though quite hot and sticky for everyone, we were so blessed to participate in IgniteChicago's second annual all-day music festival. Sponsored by Compassion, Edan Concerts and Sonshine Concerts, we enjoyed worship by Jael, John Reuben, Red, Todd Agnew, Superchick, Hawk Nelson, David Crowder, Mercy Me and Newsboys. What an awesome experience to come together with so many other Christians to bring praises to our Lord Jesus Christ.

Ignite, held in Schaumburg, was attended by over 7,000 people. What a great opportunity for Cache' Connections to spread the news of our services. Booth visitors got a kick out of voting for our Single Spotlight Contest; even the kids and "marrieds" got to participate and play matchmaker-for-a-day. (If you haven't registered your vote, check out this page: http://www.cacheconnections.com/matthewfinal).

From 11:00 a.m. until about 9:00 p.m., Kim and Linda were busy explaining Cache' Connections services and answering many questions from interested Christian singles. In addition, many good contacts were made, including some radio stations, singles groups, and other ministries. We look forward to seeing the fruits of this opportunity for Cache' Connections, and especially for our members!

Laminin: CAUTION, I'm about to get scientific...

Scary, I know. So, you know those annoying "forward" emails that your friends, relatives and coworkers send you? How they often seem to be hokey, repetitive, sacchirin sweet or too edgy or foul to share? Well, I received one of those yesterday. Of course, it was from one of my e-friends who never writes fresh text, always a forward. Snore...... until I clicked the link about Laminin! Have you seen this on youtube? Ohmygosh, click on the link below to watch Louie Giglio explain to you what Laminin is. Colossians 1:17 says: He (Christ) is before all things and IN HIM ALL THINGS HOLD TOGETHER.” One way Christ does is this by the cell adhesion protein molecule called Laminin, diagram above. OK, so, since I'm not a preacher and definitely not a scientist, please click on the link. You'll be glad you did.

~Linda


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_e4zgJXPpI4

I told you he was ugly.

So, the other night I was chatting away with my new member/pals in our chat room. Everyone started introducing their faithful dogs and cats at their side. I mentioned Obie, pictured above. I don't think my new friends took me seriously when I stated that we are not sure if he is 100% dog, so I felt compelled to blog about him. There seems to be a strong hint of rat, thus the nickname: "Streetrat," affectionately taken from the Disney movie Aladdin. My son found him roaming the streets on the other side of town and the rest, as they say, is history. To my further surprise (and chagrin) he later brought home a purebred black lab puppy named Jack - paid in full. Jack is 1 year old and a full time job. So all you out there with cute little beagles and lapdogs, think of me. Pray for me. The picture tells it all. Maybe we will have an "Ugliest Dog in the Spotlight" contest next...

~Linda

Should I call her?

While we encourage everyone to take their relationships slowly and prayerfully, we also encourage you to begin speaking with each other over the phone or meeting in person as soon as you are comfortable in doing so. So much can be lost over the internet - tone of voice, body language, humor, etc. Let's face it. If you are going to have a relationship, it's going to be "live and in person." So, when you're ready, go ahead and call! We have put together some great conversation starters:

http://www.cacheconnections.com/conversationstarters

"Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone." Colossians 4:6

Blessings,
Linda

We Pray!

Hi everyone! Just a short entry to ask you to pray for us as we continue to pray for all members and potential members. We pray daily for your connections, and that God would direct single Christians to Cache' Connections who would be good connections for you. We also ask you to pray for us, as we make decisions on how to expand our marketing. We have received God's favor with WQFL in Rockford and are very thankful for that! We realize that most singles want to be connected with people who are relatively close to them. Finding the right Christian radio, email campaigns and web drivers can be very complicated and time-consuming, but we know God has a plan for us... and you. Plans to prosper and not to harm us! We claim God's promises over this business and for your heart's desires. Have a blessed 4th as you remember to thank God for the freedoms we enjoy in the United States of America. ~~ Linda

Johnny picks Kristy!

Our first Single Spotlight Dating Game concludes this Saturday with a fabulous date with Johnny and his final choice, Kristy from Machesney Park. Although Johnny would have liked to take all three contestants out for the special date, his heart was won over by Kristy's friends who had wonderful things to say about her as they were calling in their votes to WQFL. Kristy's involvement in children's ministry and exemplary lifestyle of being "Jesus with skin on" were the deciding factors for Johnny. This coming Saturday, Kristy will be picked up by a limousine provided by Cliffbreakers. Together they will enjoy a wonderful meal and dessert, also provided by Cliffbreakers. Johnny will give Kristy a dozen roses provided by Crimson Ridge, and Photography by Harvey will be there to capture the night on film. Lastly, the fortunate couple will be treated with some take-home sweets provided by Simply Cakes. We are praying for good weather and a wonderful evening. Thanks, Johnny and Kristy for playing our Christian version of the Dating Game. Together, we can all help send a message that even "Jesus with skin on" can have fun and enjoy life!

After Launch Progress

Rockford will never be the same after Cache' Connections came to town! Well, maybe that's wishful thinking. WQFL radio and Johnny V., the afternoon DJ promote the business and we are now featuring Johnny in the "Single Spotlight" contest. We have several ladies from the area vying for a special date with Johnny on the 28th of June which is provided by area sponsors. An amazing night is planned including such amenities as a limo ride, dinner at a 5-star restaurant, makeover, photos, flowers and a special dessert; see http://www.cacheconnections.com/singlespotlight/city.

We have had a great response from the area and also have received signups from several other states. It is exciting for Linda and me that several people are communicating and arranging to talk or meet. Members seem to be adjusting to our photo requirements in order to help combat the common online dating delimna of falsifying photos. Most of all, it is such a confirmation that Cache' Connections is attracting the people it is designed to attract: like-minded believers.

Our online chats have just begun. We had our first open chats and engaging conversations were experienced by all who attended. Very soon we will soon be featuring our experts in our chats who will offer their expertise to attendees.

Linda and I continue to refine our marketing model as we experiment in this test market. We were featured in the Rockford Star, which has brought awareness to some who do not listen to WQFL. We also are interviewed on WQFL each week.

Above all, we pledge our faith in God's ultimate plan and destiny for this business and its members.

Blessings,
Kim

Getting Attached to the Wrong Guy or Girl

I'm reading a great book on dating by Dr. Henry Cloud. Chapter 23 introduces a gal who is having issues with her boyfriend of one year. It seems she often takes second place to his hobbies and other interests. (Haven't we all been there?) Dr. Cloud asked her what she was looking for in a mate. She responded with a respectable "I want someone who is committed to me, is spiritually compatible, lives out our values, stuff like that." Dr. Cloud suggested she break off the relationship, but she responded that she loves him. Interestingly, Dr. Cloud showed her that she was being led by her attachment to him, rather than leading by her values. He states: "You have to be guided by your spiritual values and the things that make love last. I am not suggesting you 'throw love away.' I am suggesting that you protect love and require the character that makes it work. That is what values do - they protect and preserve love and all the good things in life." Dr. Cloud goes on to suggest that you maintain your boundaries from Day 1 of a relationship in order to protect your emotions from getting over involved with the wrong person. I think this is an all-too common problem, and the cause of many divorces. People settle for someone who doesn't really meet their basic value system. This is overlooked at the beginning of a relationship due to exaggerated chemical reactions sometimes referred to as the "love cocktail." Over time, this love potion wears off and you are left to deal with a person that you don't mesh with on a fundamental level. This is not to say that there won't be some give and take in a relationship. You have to carefully weigh what you can wiggle on and what you can't - there are no perfect relationships. Just don't settle for someone who may turn you into someone you don't want to become, or for a relationship that is less than God's good plans for you!

Countdown!

Seven days til launch and so much to do. We are working fervently to load content into the site and learn how to manage it. We are so excited to welcome singles in and let them start connecting!


On Monday we were interviewed on WQFL radio in Rockford. You may click on the link above to stream their program. They have totally embraced Cache' and are running interviews, 15 second commercials and have added our logo to their website. The exciting part, though, is that their single DJ, "Johnny V", is going to be our first spotlighted single in our contest! He is going to be talking on the air about his experiences with Cache'. So, girls, line up and be ready to apply to be his special date, which will be paid for by sponsors in the Rockford area.


On a side note, for you Peoria-area friends, we regret to say that WCIC has chosen not to continue our spot. There are no hard feelings and we will continue enjoying their programming, but wanted you to know why you won't be hearing about Cache' on your local Christian radio station.


We thank all of you who have faithfully prayed for us over the past several months. It has been a gigantic endeavor, but God has been with us all along, teaching, correcting and stretching us in many ways. To God be the glory!

The Matching Process

We are busy writing content as we are less than 30 days from launch. Here's a preview of the matching process.

• Cache’ Connections matchmaking system was developed around these two foundational concepts:


• 1. When it comes to matters of the heart and soul, science can only go so far in
  measuring compatibility and the all-important element of chemistry. Despite the emphasis on scientific matching systems in today’s dating society, it is highly unlikely that a successful connection will be based solely on science. Matching systems offer a great advantage by providing information to determine common interests and compatibility, but cannot absolutely determine whether there will be a connection between two individuals. 2. The decision to form a relationship will ultimately come down to two individuals making that choice for themselves by connecting, communicating and spending time together in a variety of circumstances.


• The Cache’ Connections system is designed to help Christian singles connect and establish healthy relationships by:


• 1. narrowing all members to like-minded believers 2. providing a detailed questionnaire 3. providing encouragement and guidance based on Biblical standards


• The questionnaire is a self-discovery process in itself. The questions are designed to help singles come to a deeper level of understanding about themselves and what qualities they desire in a potential connection. Cache’ Connection members are given relationship advice along the way by Drs. Tom and Beverly Rodgers. This professional advice will guide members to look at themselves in a more subjective manner and possibly prompt them to
  reassess what type of mate they are looking for.



• Cache’ Connections is designed to form a community of committed believers, match members according to zip code and age and then educate members in order to make healthy choices for themselves. We encourage members to read and follow the advice from our experts and prayerfully seek God’s direction in their relationships.

2007 Top Googled Questions

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