tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1250191229620185700.post6991123625264099980..comments2023-12-17T12:55:53.461-06:00Comments on CACHE' CONNECTIONS CHRISTIAN MATCHMAKING: She's Interested and He's Not PursuingKimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11903219648063191835noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1250191229620185700.post-44304060400334375382011-11-01T13:55:45.309-05:002011-11-01T13:55:45.309-05:00I would like to offer the male point of view. I d...I would like to offer the male point of view. I don't think that there is a standard answer that covers every situation. Yes, we do like to be in control of things, but, if I already have a friendship with a woman, moving to a relationship can be tricky. If one of us is not interested in a relationship and just wants a friendship, what happens to the friendship when he/she expresses interest in a relationship? I do believe that a woman should subtlely let a guy know that she is interested (flirting, touching, etc.), whether it occurs earlier or later. That way a guy can decide if he wants to make his move. If he doesn't make a move, the woman can look elsewhere for a relationship, and the friendship can continue. If he does make a move, he can be assured that she will be interested.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1250191229620185700.post-22469599314851423502011-10-28T11:54:14.666-05:002011-10-28T11:54:14.666-05:00I agree with you Anonymous (IL). Frustrating as i...I agree with you Anonymous (IL). Frustrating as it is, we can only try to lead the "horse" to the water. From there, he'll have to decide if he wants to drink or not. We must resist the urge to give his head a nudge!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1250191229620185700.post-7447440859756525042011-10-27T20:46:27.493-05:002011-10-27T20:46:27.493-05:00Woooowww!!! Amazing! Right on target!
I've fou...Woooowww!!! Amazing! Right on target!<br />I've found myself in the same dilemma. Do I let him know I'm interested? or do I wait on God? hmmmmm..Both are very good points. As an independent, fearless woman, I've taken this route in the past, of letting the guy know my true feelings...and guess what? I blew it! I've come to understand the hard way that I shouldn't take things into my own hands, but should TRUST in the Lord, and let the man lead the way and wait on him to make the first move. Although men say they don't mind the woman making the first move, in reality they can't love what they haven't conquered!!!<br /><br />Female, 40+, ILAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com